More men than ever before use erectile dysfunction medication to give their sex life a boost. But do you use it the right way?
Erectile dysfunction (ED) drugs are more readily available than ever before, and in general, men have gotten past any stigma about needing them. Yet many men still approach ED drugs the wrong way.
FYI on ED
While men might have other sexual issues, such as low libido, premature ejaculation, and the inability to achieve orgasm, ED pertains explicitly to not being able to get or maintain an erection. ED drugs address only that issue, by improving blood flow into the penis and keeping the blood in place to maintain an erection.
There are four ED drugs currently available: sildenafil (Viagra), avanafil (Stendra), tadalafil (Cialis), and vardenafil (Levitra). At least one ED drug works in about 70% of men, but results vary among individuals. Men who have nerves or arteries damaged by prostate surgery, diabetes, or cardiovascular disease often do not respond as strongly to ED drugs.
If one drug doesn’t work after a predetermined period, your doctor may increase the dosage or prescribe one of the others. “Sometimes, you have to try all of them before knowing whether ED drugs work for you,”
ED drugs: How soon and how long?
Watch out for side effects
The most common side effects are headaches, upset stomach, nasal congestion, muscle pain, and facial flushing. But most of these are relatively mild and go away after a few hours.
ED drugs can make blood pressure temporarily drop, so never use them if you also take medications that contain nitrates. (Nitrates found in food don’t pose a problem.)
You also need to be careful if you take any other drugs that lower blood pressure. For example, alpha blockers — such as tamsulosin (Flomax) and alfuzosin (Uroxatral), which are used to treat symptoms of an enlarged prostate, lower blood pressure in some men. Make sure to take them at least four hours apart from an ED drug.
Shopping for ED drugs
The cost of ED drugs varies depending on the pharmacy price and your health insurance coverage. Even if private insurance covers it, you may be limited to four doses per month. But there are ways to help lower the cost and shop smarter.
Ask your doctor about splitting higher-dose pills, so your supply lasts longer.
Look into manufacturer discount programs, which allow you to obtain a limited supply of medications not covered by your insurance.
Only order ED drugs online from a reputable pharmacy. If you purchase them elsewhere, you never know how they are made or if they even contain the right ingredients.
The mental side of sex
It’s important to realize that ED drugs don’t increase sexual desire, and you have to be ready and sexually stimulated for them to work.
“You can’t just take a pill, pay some bills or wash the dishes, and then go to the bedroom and think you’ll be ready to go. When your mind is not there, you are not going to want sex, and no ED drug can fix that problem.”
He says that before trying an ED drug, you should step back and analyze your sex life and when your ED occurs. Does it happen all the time or just in certain situations? Is it with only one partner or different ones? Does it ever happen when you masturbate? Are the problems associated with stress or alcohol?
“You might benefit from sex therapy with your partner, or you may need treatment for a specific condition that affects your desire and sexual arousal, like post-traumatic stress disorder, depression, or anxiety.”